ROANOKE TIMES Copyright (c) 1996, Roanoke Times DATE: Friday, January 26, 1996 TAG: 9601260074 SECTION: VIRGINIA PAGE: B-1 EDITION: NEW RIVER VALLEY DATELINE: RICHMOND SOURCE: ASSOCIATED PRESS MEMO: NOTE: Shorter version ran in Metro edition.
``BEING MARRIED means showing respect for each other and not beating the daylights out of her or him,'' says the legislator who wants Virginia to print warning labels on marriage license applications.
A legislator wants Virginia to print warning labels on marriage license applications in an effort to halt spousal abuse.
Under the bill sponsored by Del. David Brickley, D-Prince William County, the license application would contain the warning: ``The laws of the Commonwealth affirm your right to enter into this marriage as an equal partner and at the same time live within your marriage free from violence and abuse. Neither of you is the property of the other.''
The warning, suggested by an association of Virginia doctors, adds that Virginia laws concerning assault and battery, as well as sexual or physical abuse, apply to spouses.
``I'm hopeful that when a [future] husband and wife go to take that gigantic step and when they read this statement in bold print, they'll realize that being married means showing respect for each other and not beating the daylights out of her or him,'' Brickley said.
``For the truly violent person, it will not have any effect,'' Brickley said. But if the warning prevents one spousal beating, it would be worthwhile, he said. It may even keep a couple from walking down the aisle.
Not all agree.
Shirlie McQuinn, 43, and Jackie Evans, 46, were in Richmond Circuit Court on Wednesday to fill out an application for a marriage license.
``That little bit of writing doesn't mean anything,'' McQuinn said.
Sen. Mark Earley, R-Chesapeake, said while he supports what Brickley is trying to do, he doesn't think a warning label is necessary.
If the application is going to contain that kind of warning, it might as well warn engaged couples about legalities involving child support and civil rights in divorce cases, Earley said.
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