The Virginian-Pilot
                             THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT 
              Copyright (c) 1994, Landmark Communications, Inc.

DATE: Monday, November 14, 1994              TAG: 9411140057
SECTION: FRONT                    PAGE: A1   EDITION: FINAL 
SOURCE: BY MARC DAVIS, STAFF WRITER 
                                             LENGTH: Long  :  286 lines

$5 MILLION FOR CHARITY

In death, Celia Stern has achieved something she never could in her 93 years of life. She has become a one-woman United Way.

When Stern died shortly before Christmas 1992 in her Virginia Beach Oceanfront condo, she left behind $5 million in cash and property. She also left a great mystery - two wills and two executors, both of whom claimed to be legitimate.

It took a year to untangle the mess. A judge eventually ruled one of the wills bogus when two ``witnesses'' to the document admitted it was fake.

That ended the legal mystery, but it created a whole new and equally intriguing question: Where would all the money go?

Under Stern's will, Norfolk attorneyPeter G. Decker Jr. has unlimited authority to spend the money. All of it must go to charity; otherwise Stern left no specific directions.

A year later, the cash has been spread thickly and quickly to dozens of charities throughout Norfolk and Virginia Beach.

Every area college got a piece. So did prep schools and religious schools. So did three environmental groups. So did five churches, two synagogues, the Catholic diocese and a prison ministry.

So, too, did a library, a zoo, three museums, several medical research groups, and 12 agencies that feed, clothe, counsel or protect the needy.

Decker has distributed nearly $3 million to more than 130 local charities. It has been, Decker says, one of the most satisfying things he has done in 35 years as a lawyer.

``Mrs. Stern gave me the opportunity to do more good than I have ever done,'' Decker says.

Exactly one year has passed since Decker won control of the estate in a nasty court battle. While state police say a criminal investigation of the bogus will is still pending, the fun part of Stern's estate - disbursing the money - is nearly finished.

Decker says he has committed nearly every penny of Stern's $5.5 million to one charity or another, but has actually written checks for only $2.9 million.

That makes Celia Stern's will one of the biggest charities in town.

It is, for example, bigger than the $2-million-a-year Norfolk Foundation. And it is about half the $10 million raised and distributed last year by the United Way of South Hampton Roads.

As a result, Stern's name - or at least the name of her estate - has been coming up everywhere lately.

Contrary to what some observers expected, Decker did not give most of the money to his pet charity, St. Jude Children's Research Hospital. So far, St. Jude has received $63,500, although Decker says it will get much more when he sells Stern's real estate holdings, worth about $700,000.

The rest of Stern's money has gone just about everywhere. Donations range from $500 for the East Ocean View Bike Patrol in Norfolk to $250,000 for an endowment at the Hebrew Academy of Tidewater in Virginia Beach - the only Jewish day school in Hampton Roads.

Some groups got surprise calls from Decker after the dispute over the will was over. Others actively solicited the money from Decker when they read about the legal fight.

Decker was besieged by requests.

``People were waiting in line downstairs,'' Decker recalls, sitting in his third-floor office in downtown Norfolk. ``You would have thought I was the busiest lawyer in the world. . . . Charities I never knew existed were popping up out of the woodwork. Suddenly everyone was Pete Decker's best friend.''

Decker smiles. ``I've tried to keep everybody happy,'' he says.

Well, maybe not everybody. Decker denied money to at least one charity that Stern hated while she was alive. She disliked professional fund-raisers who badgered her by phone.

But almost everyone else got donations.

In life, Stern was a private, frail woman, who lived alone with few visitors. In death, she has made thousands of friends.

``The estate of Celia Stern is doing an awful lot of good,'' said Ken Freeman, general manager of the Virginia Opera. ``Not just for the opera but for a lot of groups around town.''

It is an eclectic list, to say the least.

Stern was Jewish, so several Jewish groups got donations. Jewish Family Services received $25,000. Hadassah got $5,000. When the air conditioner broke this spring at Temple Beth El, Stern's estate bought a new one. ``It has been a blessing for us,'' said synagogue president Linda Belkov.

Many other religions benefited, too.

The Greek Orthodox Church got $10,000 for its expansion. Holy Trinity Church got another $10,000 to help the needy. St. Mark's Episcopal Church, Rock Church and the Catholic diocese also got donations.

By far the biggest recipients, as a group, were medical institutions. Six of the top 11 donations fell into that category. For example:

Physicians for Peace, a Norfolk-based medical mission, got $75,000. This will help send a team of doctors, nurses and technicians to Yemen next spring or summer.

``The Stern money will be a lifesaver, literally,'' said Louisa Nye, a trustee and volunteer nurse. ``It's going to do so much good in that tiny country.''

DePaul Medical Center got $100,000. Half will be used for indigent care; half will help upgrade the critical care pavilion.

Children's Hospital of The King's Daughters got $210,000, which will help upgrade the cancer treatment center. Decker's donation was among the 15 largest in the hospital's ongoing expansion campaign But hospital officials say they still need $175,000 to reach a June goal that will make them eligible for a matching $400,000 grant from the Kresge Foundation.

The arts got big bucks, too:

The Virginia Symphony balanced its books for the first time in six years, thanks in part to a $50,000 Stern donation.

The Virginia Opera expanded its educational programs with Stern's $102,500.

Norfolk Festevents used $76,000 from Stern to expand children's activities at all festivals and to add a space camp in July.

At the Norfolk Botanical Gardens, Stern's $50,000 will go toward a new educational building.

And at WHRO, a $25,000 gift from Stern funded ``The Class of 2000,'' a TV and radio show that examines educational issues.

While the full list of recipients won't be filed until all the money is disbursed, Decker said charities can stop calling.

``We've committed the whole estate away. . . every dime I have,'' Decker said. ``Of all the things I've done in my life, this has to be the most satisfying.'' ILLUSTRATION: Color photo

Celia Stern

B&W photo

Norfolk attorney Peter G. Decker

Staff color file photo by Lawrence Jackson

Children's Hospital of the King's Daughters

$210,000. Dr. Rebecca Byrd of the cancer treatment center sits with

Ciara Bennett, left, and Cole Culley, 2-year-olds from Virginia

Beach. The money will help upgrade the center.

Color Staff file photo by Bill Tiernan

Norfolk Festevents

$76,000. Jason Smithwick, 13, of Chespeake tries out weightlessness

at a space camp at Waterside in July. A donation from Stern's estate

was used to fund the event.

Color photo by louisa S. Nye.

Physicians for Peace

$75,000. Norfolk cardiologists John Onufer, center, confers with

colleagues during an operation last month in Cairo, Egypt. The Stern

donation will help send a team to Yemen in 1995.

Graphic

[List]

Here's a look at who got money

Charitable gifts thru Nov. 7, 1994

Access25,000

Alzheimer's Association10,000

Amateur Athletic Union1,000

American Cancer Society35,000

American Heart Association55,000

American Lung Association of Va.10,000

Angel Kiss Foundation5,000

Armed Services YMCA3,500

Back Bay Wildfowl Guild10,000

Beth Chaverim Congregation5,000

Beth El Congregation30,000

Beth Sholom Home10,000

Boo Williams Summer League1,000

Boy Scouts10,000

Boys & Girls Club30,000

CADRA5,000

CANDII15,000

Cape Henry Collegiate School30,000

Careers Through Culinary Arts3,000

Catholic Diocese of Richmond5,000

Center for Disfigurement10,000

Chef & Child Foundation10,000

Chesapeake Bay Foundation12,500

Children's Hospital of the K.D.210,000

Children's Kiwanis Emergency Center5,000

Children's Performance Workshops10,000

Chrysler Museum65,000

Cyprus Childrens Fund5,000

DePaul Medical Center100,000

Diabetes Institute Foundation25,000

Dockside Art Review of Tidewater10,500

Donna Doyle Scholarship Fund5,000

Downtown Norfolk Council10,000

Dwelling Place10,000

East Ocean View Bike Patrol500

Easter Seal Society of Virginia30,000

Eggleston Center5,000

Endependence Center5,000

Family Services of Tidewater12,500

Foodbank of Southeastern Virginia17,000

Friends of Norfolk Juvenile Court32,500

Friends of the Elderly2,500

Girl Scouts10,000

Good News Jail/Prison Ministry5,000

Governors Magnet School for Arts5,000

Greek Orthodox Church10,000

Hadassah5,000

Hampton Roads Black Media Profs.2,500

Hampton Roads Cultural Endowment25,000

Hampton Roads Education TV Assoc.25,000

Hampton Roads Soccer Council5,000

Haven Family Assistance10,000

Hebrew Academy of Tidewater250,000

Help & Emergency Response1,000

Holy Trinity Church10,000

Humane Society of Amhurst County5,000

Hunton YMCA2,500

Hurrah Players5,000

International College25,000

Intl. Inst. of Reconstructive Surgery25,000

Japan Education Culture Center5,000

Jewish Community Center10,000

Jewish Family Services25,000

Joy Fund20,000

Khedive Temple2,000

Knights of Columbus22,000

Law and Disorderly Inc.2,500

Lee's Friends20,000

Leukemia Society10,000

MacArthur Foundation10,000

Make-a-Wish10,000

Medical College of Hampton Roads50,000

Middlesex County Public Library1,500

Mother Seton House2,500

National Judicial College5,000

Natl. Assn. of Black Journalists5,000

Nature Conservancy2,500

Nauticus40,000

Naval Base Little League25,000

Navy League, Hampton Roads Council9,000

Norfolk Academy19,278

Norfolk Board of Education2,500

Norfolk Botanical Gardens50,000

Norfolk Catholic25,000

Norfolk Collegiate School30,000

Norfolk Crime Line5,000

Norfolk Festevents76,000

Norfolk Parks & Recreation2,500

Norfolk SPCA5,500

Norfolk State College Foundation25,000

Norfolk State University25,000

Old Dominion University221,000

Onesimus Ministries of Norfolk5,000

Operation Smile35,000

Optimist Club of Norfolk2,500

Order of Alhambra10,000

Physicians for Peace75,000

Portsmouth Museums Foundation10,000

Red Cross10,000

Rock Church3,000

Rosemont Middle School5,000

Salvation Army5,000

Sheriff F. Drew Community Fund7,500

Ships at Sea10,000

Society/Aid/Sickle Cell Anemia10,000

Special Love Inc.15,000

Special Olympics10,000

St. Jude Children's Research Hospital63,500

St. Mark's Episcopal Church5,000

St. Mary's Infant Home25,000

Tidewater Community College10,000

Tidewater Fdtn. for Performing Arts10,000

Tidewater Jewish Foundation10,000

Tidewater Korean Association1,000

Tidewater Winds15,000

UNICEF25,000

Union Mission5,000

United Way35,000

Urban League25,000

Vesthouse Inc.5,000

Virginia Beach Polo Club5,000

Virginia Beach Foundation51,500

Virginia Beach Chorale25,000

Virginia Beach Rescue Squad25,000

Virginia Home10,000

Virginia Marine Science Museum25,000

Virginia Opera Association102,500

Virginia Stage Company25,000

Virginia Symphony50,000

Virginia Wesleyan College25,000

Virginia Zoological Society10,000

Ward's Corner Little League1,000

Young Audiences5,000

TOTAL

133 organizations... $2.88 million

KEYWORDS: CHARITIES DONATION

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