The Virginian-Pilot
                             THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT 
              Copyright (c) 1994, Landmark Communications, Inc.

DATE: Sunday, November 20, 1994              TAG: 9411180011
SECTION: COMMENTARY               PAGE: J4   EDITION: FINAL 
TYPE: Editorial 
                                             LENGTH: Short :   43 lines

CELIA STERN'S MILLIONS FORTUNE TO HELP OTHERS

Describing his job to disburse the fortune left by Celia Stern of Norfolk, attorney Peter G. Decker said he felt akin to television's mysterious philanthropist ``The Millionaire'' of years ago.

This is one case where the real thing has it all over drama. While the TV millions were make-believe, Ms. Stern's real dollars will enrich countless lives.

After winning a battle over her will, Decker got control of $5.5 million in cash and property, all to go to charities. All of the money has been delivered or committed to Hampton Roads colleges, environmental groups, churches and synagogues, medical-research groups, agencies serving children, and others.

In some instances, beneficiaries requested the money; in others, Decker, like TV's millionaire, surprised them.

Recipients of the Stern bequest and the planned uses are amazingly diverse - from $210,000 to upgrade the cancer-treatment unit at Children's Hospital of the King's Daughters to $1,000 for the Ward's Corner Little League; from $250,000 for Hebrew Academy of Tidewater in Virginia Beach to $75,000 for Norfolk-based Physicians for Peace to send a medical team to Yemen.

All of this is possible because of a frail, very private woman who rarely ventured from her Virginia Beach condominium. She was never married and had no immediate family.

Along with her late brother, she had run a restaurant-supply business for many years in Norfolk. She died in December 1992.

Then began a tussle over two wills. A Norfolk man who had befriended Ms. Stern claimed that he held the later one, but a judge ruled it a fake. That upheld Decker's control of the money.

Decker, himself known for extensive charity work, says deciding where the money should go enabled him to ``do more good than I have ever done.'' Than most of the rest of us, too. by CNB