The Virginian-Pilot
                             THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT 
              Copyright (c) 1995, Landmark Communications, Inc.

DATE: Sunday, August 27, 1995                TAG: 9508250011
SECTION: COMMENTARY               PAGE: J4   EDITION: FINAL 
TYPE: Letter 
                                             LENGTH: Short :   25 lines

GENTLEMEN, TOO?

My heart goes out to the Faulkners. Their daughter made a decision - a controversial one. They stood by her, as any parent would do, in her quest to reach something she believed in. A ferocious legal battle and 2 1/2 years meant enormous emotional stress not only for her but also for her family and friends. Once she formally resigned, cadets at the all- male Citadel were jubilant.

Officers and gentlemen? Think again. Also think that all of us, males and females, contribute tax dollars toward their education.

I ask the good Lord to guide my children and their talents as far away as possible from institutions such as The Citadel.

GRACIELA I. FINLEY

Virginia Beach, Aug. 20, 1995 by CNB