The Virginian-Pilot
                             THE VIRGINIAN-PILOT 
              Copyright (c) 1995, Landmark Communications, Inc.

DATE: Monday, September 11, 1995             TAG: 9509080031
SECTION: FRONT                    PAGE: A6   EDITION: FINAL 
TYPE: Letter 
                                             LENGTH: Short :   32 lines

HOSPICES HELP

I recently found myself facing the terminal illness of a loved one. It's devastating, and one is never really prepared. However, within our city we are fortunate to have a committed group of professionals who deal with problems of this nature daily. I am speaking of the hospice program.

Some years ago I saw part of a TV program which talked about hospices helping patients and their families deal with terminal illness. Had I paid closer attention, I might have discovered the many other services provided by this group. I would have also learned that the program is tailored for each individual and there will always be help available if the need is there.

Hospice professionals are very special people - you have to be to work daily with the dying and not form your own shell of protective callousness. Each person I came in contact with showed me concern, gentleness and competence.

Those who are faced with the terminal illness of a loved one shouldn't be alone. Guidance from the professionals will make all the difference in the world. Hospice is there to help, and will.

ANNE A. ANDERSON

Norfolk, Sept. 2, 1995 by CNB